A Note from the Author…
Yesterday my husband, James and I were clearing out the house looking for a lost passport. Somewhere in the mêlée of drawers, boxes and paperwork he came across my diary from nine years ago. The diary began just a few weeks before I met him. It documented my arrival in the town of Leicester, our meeting and my general life around that time.
It was like being confronted with a total stranger. Even James remarked that I am now a totally different woman from the lost, self conscious, slightly conceited girl that I had been then.
It made for hard reading. I was horrified by some of my small-minded comments and throwaway asides. I felt sorry for the child inside me who had been very confused about the world, about relationships and about where on earth her life was headed. It was the diary of someone consumed by her own messy life, and was desperately trying to fathom a way out, but without having to make too much effort. It was Bridget Jones but with soft drugs, hard rock and a boyfriend.
What scares me now when reading back through my diary, is how unconscious I was to anything. These days I am stringently aware of myself, of others, of the world, the planet, animals and all of our spiritual places within it. Back then, I could not see past my own bed, work and another rampaging night out. I was living the fantastical young woman’s life. I was exploring all that life had to offer when living in a two up two down on the hard side of town.
I was making friends, meeting people, shopping with the funds from my first proper job, misbehaving and apparently having massive amounts of fun.
But my thoughts never drifted beyond all of this. The only inner seeking I did, was to harp back to my life just before Leicester and wonder where it all went wrong.
This may sound like a familiar scenario to you. Many of us have a tendency to live shallow, self-seeking lives, not because we are bad people, but because there are few other options apparent to us. We earn money, we buy things, we feather our nest and we believe that this gives our lives meaning. At weekends we pour this money into a social account that sees us through another week with a few funny memories. The lucky few of us have great careers, or wonderful children to focus on. But still… we are not thinking outside of the four walls of our own lives.
I believe there is more to our lives than we currently realize. We are not simply little human consumption machines, we are powerful spiritual beings and it is time we started to explore this. Accessing this knowledge and empowering ourselves with it is the aim of this book.
The High Heeled Guide to Spiritual Living will help take you from the shallow side to a deeper and more fulfilling existence.
I intend to show you that beyond our little lives, you are connected to infinity.
You are in cahoots with all other people and things on this planet, and when you know this you can begin living above and beyond your current, somewhat limited, potential.
I want you to know that you are a spiritual being, having a human experience. To explore this you do not need to wait until you die. You are spiritual now, this is your life now. The two things can be merged to great effect and all things can become more meaningful than you ever anticipated.
Whilst we didn’t find James’s passport during our clear out, it became clear to me that somewhere along the line I had found my passport to a crazily fulfilling life. By realizing my spirituality and the life force and energy of all things, I too had realized who I am. I have found my purpose and flown to greater, happier heights.
I will say no more, save for the fact that this book is written for you. My last book, if I am honest was written for me, it was a kind of therapy that prepared me for my spiritual path.
Instead now I devote this book to you in your high heels, your biker boots, your sandals and your bare feet. I devote it to women, and to men, and to children should they feel that way inclined.
All I want to do is help change the world and if I can get your consciousness to budge one tiny little millimeter, then I am smiling.
Peace and Love
“I believe that we are so unenlightened in our ever distracting world that simply opening ourselves gently to the notion of enlightenment is a small enlightenment in itself. It is an achievement simply to choose to believe and to let the faith that follows become a life guide.”
Alice’s Diary March 2010
If you learn one thing whilst reading this, then let it be this, you are already spiritual; you must be, because you are spirit. This is one spiritual truth that is often overlooked and lost in the complexities and varied opinions that inform you how to become a spiritual person.
The premise of this book is that your spirituality is entirely individual to you. The High Heeled Guide to Spiritual Living aims to show you that the true discovery of your spirituality can only ever come from your own personal existence. Gurus, books and mantras aside, I believe that your spirituality is innately and unequivocally yours, it already exists, it is you, and I hope to help you scratch the surface and set it free.
I started learning about spirituality through consulting the wisdom of ancient faiths, as is depicted in my book The High Heeled Guide to Enlightenment. That was hugely profitable in beginning to understand a global view of what spirituality is, and how I could bring it into my modern life. After finishing my explorations of faith, I found myself at a loose end, and it was within this loose end and the resulting year or so of living that my own spirituality truly found me.
In writing The High Heeled Guide to Enlightenment I had opened myself up to a spiritual life. At the beginning of my trip towards enlightenment I may well have believed spiritual life to be all fairies, angels and wishing upon a star. However as my divine trip progressed I soon came to see that spirituality is found more powerfully in the things that you see and experience every day.
There is spirituality in your work, in your arguments, in your debt and in your grievances. There is spirituality in your bad hair days, your best friend’s pony and the way your sister always borrows your clothes without asking. There is spirituality in your heart, your mind, your flesh, your bones, in your walk and in your talk.
Let me assure you of this, a bus ride home from work can be as spiritually enlightening as a private dinner with the Dalai Lama. Your life is your spiritual teacher, and The High Heeled Guide to Spiritual Living is your personal road map to your own version of spiritual freedom and enlightenment.
Through the pages of this book I wish to show you that spiritual living is not the sole remit of a far-flung journey to the mystical corners of the planet. It is not a guru chanting mysteries of the universe into your ever-willing ear, whilst you pay by the hour. It is not found solely in a spirituality class, through meditations or via a strict cleansing, fasting and praying regime.
Spirituality is found through your every day life. It is discovered through the highs, the lows, the boredoms and the barmy! Any guru worth their robes and title should tell you that fact. A good guru should tell you that what you are seeking is yourself, and they should tell you to look inside yourself for answers. But that is a bit vague isn’t it? Yes a few meditations may help, but what about when the boiler breaks and the tires burst or your best friend runs off with your husband? What about real life? How are you supposed to get spiritualized when life gets in the way?
Well I have lived through that dilemma and I am now finding my way to the other side of it. I am beginning to understand that spirituality will find me no matter what, but I will not see this unless I alter my way of understanding the world.
This far along in my spiritual path I have been forced to examine a number of areas in my life in minute spiritual detail. I have had to open up my heart and soul to really get to grips with what is true and real to me. I have had to decide for myself what I believe in and what I do not.
I am not only talking about spiritual subjects, I am talking about topics like the environment, and beauty, shopping, my body, diet, my liking of alcohol and my tendency of feeling sorry for myself sometimes. I have held a spiritual mirror up to all of that and more, and the results of this are reflected back in the pages of this book.
The High Heeled Guide to Spiritual Living sets out my spiritual experience, as an example. My life is one that is lived very normally. I do not hang out with writers, spiritual gurus, psychics or celebrities. I do not have Oprah on speed dial. I work full time, I see my friends, I have minor car crashes, I have pets, I love to eat and I moan when my jeans get too tight. I too have seriously bad hair days.
Within this book I do not attest to tell you The Truth. I can only tell you my truth. If that rocks something deep inside of you, then jump on it and experience it for yourself. I intend to help you to understand the intrinsic spirituality that is already inside you.
It is my mission to assist you to find your personal spirituality. I intend to show you how to find it through the familiar, through the ups and the downs of your everyday existence. ‘Is this possible?’ I hear you shrill and shriek. ‘How can little old me, up to my eyeballs in business, bills, nappies, shoe choices and housework, possibly find the spiritual divine in my own life?’ ‘Surely a trip to India is needed?’ I hear you cry! ‘Maybe a trip to the local meditation retreat at the least?’
Well maybe… but then again, I really do not think any of those are necessary. The reason they are not necessary, and the fact that we all tend to gloss over, is, as I stated before, that you are already spiritual. You are a spiritual being hacking it out in a human body. I believe that part of our purpose in life is to somehow fuse the two.
Nobody owns spirituality, they can tell it to you all day long, they may even try to sell it to you, but it is not a product, it is not something you can purchase. Spirituality must be lived. Spirituality is what you are. You simply need to realize that fact. When you have realized it, then it is your job to find a way to live it.
Unlike my first book, the only person’s advice I have taken on writing this is my own. I have had one or two dealings with potential gurus, but they have had their own set of complications and unexpected spiritual lessons. Instead of following someone else’s lead I have trusted my personal connection to the spiritual divine, as I will encourage you to trust yours.
I am not trained, or attuned in anything (other than a dose of Reiki). I am not your guru. I am a woman who has learned thorough the mayhem that is life, and who has a better idea about how to understand and interpret her own very special spirituality. It is my aim now, to help you to do the same. No trips to India required!
The adventures and mishaps that are contained within these pages are fresh and steaming from the annals of my own life. Seriously, I went through the mill on this one for you! I aim to show you how it is the every day events, and our spiritual interpretation of them that make each of us our own Guru. I hope that through the everyday enlightenment of my daily occurrences, you will see similarities in your own life.
I have set the book out in ‘lessons’. Each of the lessons covered is something that I have had to plough through to get myself a little closer to the genuine spiritual being that lays inside of this human woman’s body. I believe each ‘lesson’ will address aspects of your life that are similar to mine, and some that I believe to be the sicknesses of our society and generations. Each lesson will help you to knock down blocks that are barring you from your own spiritual self. Each lesson will assist you to see life a little more spiritually and in turn help you to forge a stronger link to your true, higher, divine self.
As well as setting out lessons, I have proposed many fun and easy exercises to help you get stuck into fast track spiritualization! From there onward you can start to get to know your own personal and highly individual version of spirituality and enlightenment.
You are here to learn your spiritual lessons, as I am here to learn mine, I am sure that our paths are quite different. It is the similarities within our lives through which we might both find some solidarity and some spiritualization. I hope that this little offering, The High Heeled Guide to Spiritual Living, helps us both on our way!
A brief aside first: I will use the term spirituality frequently in this book, but I will also use other terms. I do not feel the term spirituality does justice to any of what I have written about. Having wrangled with other words, none, on their own, quite fit the bill. So instead I will use a variety of language, because it is colorful, I like it, and it fits into the realm of spirituality as I see it.
When I use terms such as divine, mystical, higher self, angels, guides, helpers, energy, vibration, please know that these all mean the same thing to me, more or less. These terms mean, the force, the energy, the spirit and the soul that makes up everything. They are spirituality spoken in a myriad of ways and so to reflect the dynamic, exciting and mysterious nature of spirituality, I have chosen to use them all.
So let’s begin.
Having sat more deeply within my own spirituality for a few years since writing The High Heeled Guide to Enlightenment there are a few things I would like to share. This book represents my real life learning about what spirituality is to me. I hope The High Heeled Guide to Spiritual Living will kick-start your journey into the world of all things divine, mystical and spiritually exciting.
This book is here to help show you, that in fact, everything is sacred, and every action, movement and thought you undergo can easily be done with spirituality as its starting point and center point. As a society we have swayed too far from this path and it is for that reason that I believe our society is somewhat confused. We have in essence forgotten our essence! I believe that everything is spiritual, and that if we all lived that way our society would be a truly wonderful place.
The High Heeled Guide to Spiritual Living will help you to look at your own spirituality in a universal context. I want to show you how to keep your own spiritual self-true and then how to expand that beyond yourself so that you increase your own spiritual flow and assist others to find theirs too. This book is about peace, harmony and love; it is about finding it, keeping it and about beginning to live at your spiritual peak. It’s simple, come join me.
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An empowering and spirit evoking report based reading. Perfect for those who wish to receive a full assessment of their life that they can read and revisit over time, and for those who cannot commit to an in person or Skype reading.
Using the deck I painted myself (The Cosmic Mother Deck), and intuitively received musings, I weave the mystical divine feminine into your life. But what does that really mean? It means that this reading empowers and enlightens you on your heart, soul, mind and purpose! Consider it a very detailed map of where you have been and where you are going...
This is an extensive and enlightening reading that is hand pulled and painstakingly written individually for you by me, using my 25 years of Spiritual experience, tarot expertise and my usual dirty & divine writing style as exampled in my five books! Except this one, is just for you!!! This is straight from spirit, through me, to you...
So much more than just tarot, this reading connects spiritually and shamanically to your highest self, your guides, your ancestors and your guiding totem animals. My full goddess reading brings you the intuition and self understanding you sorely need to coach you onwards, in your full Goddess power. This is spiritually truly enlightening insight on your purpose, path and the meaning of your current life.
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Areas this detailed reading delves into...
What did your life mean at the very moment of your birth? What were you placed here to bring and achieve. What is your personal highest power.
What talents you have brought to be shared? This may surprise and enlighten you. The talents of a Goddess are deeply unique. Learn just how talented you are!
You on a bad day – an insight into your darker side. Use this to navigate your moods, your lows and your dark cloud days. -
You on a good day - embrace the best of you. Use it to power forward and to understand the ability you have to accept happiness. -
Your Karma- What karmic lessons this life has brought or intends for you. These things arise in our lives as patterns, habits and things that need to be overcome. It may be karma built in this life or in lives past, it may even be the karma of your ancestors. Whatever it is, it is here for you to live and embrace. Notes from your ancestors on how and why and what you are doing with their legacy!
Your route to a happier life. Peaceful and restortaive guidance that shows you how you can up your dose of happy.
Maiden: Your early years - what your younger years brought to your life and what can be harnessed.
Goddess: Your middle years - who you are becoming, who you are, what life is teaching you.
Crone: Your later years - what the latter part of your life will bring to the world, and to you.
Love: What lessons does your love life harbours for you in this lifetime. -
Career: What you can set to learn from your career and work in this lifetime - What is your purpose? And how can you get on your path!
Health: Considers any health issues or challenges this lifetime may bring.
Family and Friends: Lessons from our nearest and dearest and how to best handle those in your life.
Archetypes - three powerful archetypes for you to be inspired by and that will lead you forward.
What your life will mean to the world on the day you return to spirit. Who have you been? How will you be remembered. What aspects of you will echo through to the future...
Your current situation in terms of ego and intuition. A spiritual assessment of your inner state, guidance to embrace for your highest benefit at this very moment in time. This aids you in moving towards a higher state of inner grace. Grasping this moment to see your current truth.
Freedom (Now) How to access and achieve the most freedom in your current situation.
Healing. Powerful, loving guidance on healing and amending all that causes you pain.
Animal Totem Guidance - love and wisdom from you power animal of the moment!
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Freedom - how to attain it, how to release the old, guidance on what is keeping you stuck.
The Heart of the Matter. An intimate consideration of the heart of your situation, and what you should be aware of now.
Past - what is the past asking you to learn at this current moment? The past is of course a complex and multilayered thing. In many ways it is still living. This section helps you pull at useful strands, lay things to rest and make the most of your history!
Present - what needs addressing, seizing and understanding at this current time. This section will help pinpoint your current power and your current pain. Helping you to shift towards a more helpful and enlightening understanding of your present circumstances.
Future - a review of where you are headed and how you can make the very best of it. This is not fortune telling, but rather, fierce and loving sign posting. It offers inspiration and guidance on the path your highests self wishes you to tread.
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I have been reading for personal guidance since I was a teen (25 years) and professionally for ten years. I produce daily readings for a growing number of fans, and my new book, Dirty & Divine, a sacred journey through tarot, showcases my expertise and understanding. You can harness this intuitive knowing, and connect to your own higher self, by purchasing your very own guidance reading today!
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A beautiful fun deck of Tarot Cards inspired by the feminine divine, designed and painted by myself spiritual author and artist Alice Grist. I am so excited to birth these cards into the world.
These cards are painted by me using watercolour and acrylic paints. I had much helps and inspiration form my then 4 year old daughter, Ivy Belle, who designed the beautiful back cover, and a couple of the cards too!
These cards were produced in the aftermath of having written my popular book, Dirty and Divine. I was all worded out, four books later and ready for a change... I felt pulled to colour and paint and drawing. The cards started as a bit of fun. Something that my daughter and I could focus on together. In the beginning I had no intention of publishing them... But then they started to take shape, and they brought a lot to my life. So I decided to get them designed up and printed out professionally, so that they may find another life with you! I cant wait to share them with you!
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Today's Solar Eclipse is asking your everyday obvious self to step back. And in the place of your usual persona, you are being asked, no, challenged to dig deeper. The moon is taking the unusual step of removing herself from the darkness. Unveiling herself and stepping up and out and being boss for a few moments.
What does this stir in you? What unanswered cravings, desires, ambitions should you play host to? The moon is guardian of our deepest, truest selves. She is the mistress of our souls. She sees us at our best and at our worst. She governs our dark nights and illuminates our parties. She sees a truth in us that the sun, in his full glare, in his power, in his glory, does not. Whilst the sun allows us to show one face, the moon promotes and provokes many of our faces, she sees beyond the bright and clear and knows our truest selves.
In positioning herself in a full frontal between us and the sun she is directly asking us to become raw and vulnerable. She is asking us to expose our inner truths, perhaps only to ourselves, to begin with. But from this place to become more deeply connected to our needs, our purpose and our reason for living. Brush aside for a few moments the clarity of who you think you are and indulge instead possibility, dreams, hopes, desires and soulful inclinations.
Today the moon is a mirror to your soul, and she brings that reflection in broad daylight to be sure that you see the potential of your deepest inner self.
Alice is author of several award winning and best selling spiritual titles. She is currently working in two books, Dirty and Divine - a guide to intuitive and spiritual tarot. And Spiritual Pregnancy.
I experienced a very cool sign from the Universe today. I was driving along thinking about people. In particular people who come and go from our lives, but who in doing so act as a catalyst, or teach us a much needed lesson. Was contemplating all this when I spotted this van pull up next to me at the lights. It summarised and answered my thoughts so perfectly.
We are all instruments of the universe. We provide service to each other through our actions, inactions and meetings. We calibrate each other, without even ever knowing. We are all Universal Instrument Services. I love this. So obviously had to take a quick snap to share.
How has the universe provided services to you recently? How have you been an instrument of universal will?
Signs can come to us in a hundred different ways. Normally I experience mine through nature, birds and music. I loved this literal signposting, arriving and disappearing with cosmic timing. Feel free to share your signs in the comments below!
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